Consequences of dating a married women
Entertain the possibility that he is lying to you, and that you are being used.
Think about STDs – You’re not the only one: Many times, married men still have sexual intercourse with their wives and or other females as well.
Michael Aaron, a kink-friendly therapist and author of For other women, while they may feel uncomfortable about the man’s marriage, their own intimacy issues draw them to someone unavailable.
“You may have an individual who wants deeper intimacy, but for whatever attachment reasons, they may be afraid,” explains Aaron.
And eventually, you’ll fall in love again with someone who’s willing to make you first in his life Ken Pile is the Editor of ASK THE LOVE DOCTOR 246; a blog and online community, designed to give women a better insight about love and relationships from the point of view of a man.
Ask any heartbroken partner from a relationship split apart due to infidelity: Affairs can be bad news.
Consider his wife who has been married to him for however many years, took care him when he was ill, made sacrifices for him and so forth. Moreover, he is allowing you to intrude in his marriage, which is really “HER TURF.” That doesn’t say anything about her, but speaks volumes about what he ultimately thinks of you.
At the same time keeping it under wraps made me feel awful, like he was ashamed of me, or us.
Don’t take his word for it and think of his wife: Despite all that he would have told you, remember you’re only hearing his side of the story.